My life is a journey...I never know who or what I will meet just around the next bend that will give my life experience!

Monday, December 31, 2018

Three Grandchildren...Three Weddings...

I cannot leave this year without talking about three amazing events that will change the lives of three of my grandchildren forever.  Three Weddings!

The first wedding that Dean and I were privileged to go to took place on April 19th in Gatlinburg, Tennessee!  It was a very long trip for us, but so worth it!  It was the wedding of my Grandson, Brendan Messex, to his beautiful bride, Railyn.  It took place on a mountaintop overlooking the beautiful Smoky Mountains.  What an amazingly beautiful day!


I shall forever count myself as blessed to have been there that day for Brendan's special day.  He has been a delightful spirit from the day he was born and I have felt a closeness with him that I cannot explain.  God bless you both as you go forward.  I love you!

The second wedding took place in Pine Valley Mountain, Utah on August 25th.  It was the marriage of Brendan's big sister, Elissa Newby, to Travis DelToro.  Another beautiful day, a spectacular setting and a gorgeous bride!  I came to this wedding alone (and then spent a week with my daughter, Heather, the mother of both of the Bride!)



Elissa will always hold a special place in my heart.  I was there the day she was born!  I watched as the medical team worked hard to save both her and her mother.  It was a day I fell to my knees in tears and praying for God's intervention.  Prayers were answered that day; and from that day forward, Heather, Elissa and I have had a special bond.  Go forward, dearhreart, and be happy.  God bless you both and always know that I love you.

The last wedding...the one that took place just before our move to Arizona...was held on a beautiful beach in San Clemente, CA on October 19th.  I flew (alone again) to Santa Ana, where my daughter Kim picked me up.  Her daughter, Kellie Messick, was to be married to Jordon Madison.  It was a hectic time in the beginning, as Kim was so busy doing just about everything herself, working herself nearly to a frazzle!  Kellie is her youngest daughter and the last of her children to get married.
It was a glorious day and after all of the hard work, turned out to be a beautiful, successful wedding.




Three separate journeys...three new lives begun.  And to think they are mine and Gerry's posterity!  I pray their futures together are as full and blessed as mine has been.  Love is a very beautiful blessing given to us by our Father in Heaven.  It is powerful, it is trying at times, and the blessings it brings into the lives of those who have the willingness to nurture it and let it bloom, have far more worth than diamonds or rubies or pearls.  God bless these children on their journeys.  I love you all!

Another Trip Around the Sun...


It is hard for me to imagine that yet another year has passed, one filled with so many changes in our lives.  The biggest change for us was our move to Arizona!

It is Christmas time and we are enjoying a wonderful visit from our son, Billy, who drove that gosh-awful distance in 17 1/2 hours (15 of which were "straight through!").  He is the joy of my life and I shall forever be grateful for him.

We also shared a visit from Dean's cousins from Phoenix, Carol and Charlie.  They couldn't stay long, so we didn't plan any real touring with them, just a wonderful lunch of homemade enchiladas, salad and Gingerbread Cookies.  We had a lovely visit.

Arizona is going to be our home for the rest of our lives and if the ending is as good as the beginning, it will be "A Wonderful Life!"  We have both settled into our respective churches...Dean into a little Presbyterian Church that is only about a mile and a half away from our house; and me, into my LDS Church which is a bit further north of town off Highway 89A.  Dean will be playing in the Bell Choir for Christmas and also playing his Flugelhorn for Christmas Eve.  He will play "O Holy Night," which he has already played for my church's Christmas Breakfast!  On Sunday, December16th, I gave my first talk at Sacrament Meeting.

Prescott and Prescott Valley have a boatload of Holiday activities to help "Make the Season Bright."  Among them are the Acker Night in downtown Prescott on December 7th, which is a fundraising activity to help support the Acker Music Park Association.  The money helps provide music programs for the local schools.  Every shop around the courthouse square opens their doors at night and hosts some form of musical talent on display!  We had a wonderful time at this activity.

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints hosted their 7th Annual Community Christmas Concert and Nativity Display on December 9th.  For us, it was our 1st attendance and we were treated to the beauty of the various Nativity collections from all around the world and a wonderful Christmas Concert!  I love a good Christmas Concert and it was so nice to be in the audience, enjoying the talents, and not up there singing.  The Church also launched a "Light the World" campaign the beginning of December to bring awareness of the Gospel of Jesus Christ to our Communities, neighborhoods, families and to ourselves.

Dean and I attended a lovely Installation of Officers meeting at his new Lodge, Aztlan Lodge 1 in Prescott.  He is delighted to have found a new lodge where he can become active again.  The luncheon was delightful.

With Billy here, we drove to the Prescott Inn to view a nice display of Gingerbread Houses from the community.  Some of them were quite creative and several ribbons were awarded.  After that, we drove through "TheValley of Lights," which is about a mile long display of lights for the Holiday Season.  There was the "Twelve Days of Christmas," Charlie Brown, various cowboy scenes, a Nativity and village, and many, many others, finishing up with Santa in his sleigh.  We drove through tunnels of lighted Poinsettias, Candy Canes and Snowflakes!  Well done, Prescott Valley!

On the 26th, the three of us attended a concert given by "Manheim Steamrollers!!"  We all enjoyed that amazing night of entertainment.  I love their iconic blend of musical treats and we were not disappointed.  It was fun to realize that only a few days earlier, this same event center was where we took Billy to enjoy an hour or so of ice skating!  He is very good, and he had a great time!  Now, at the concert, the ice is covered up with a floor and hundreds of chairs for the audience.   This is the modern day we live in!

We filled our eight days with Billy with as many activities as we could, and enjoyed a lot of family time at home, having deep discussions and playing games.  It was hard to say goodbye to Billy as he drove away on the 29th to face that long 17 hour drive back.  We will miss him.

I have filled this year-end blog with our new adventure, but as I count our blessings, they include many others from the first day of the year to the last.  We will miss Newport.  The coast of Oregon was our home for nearly 14 yers and the state of Oregon for 20!  We very nearly put down roots there, but I guess the ground is just too soggy.  We shall see what Arizona and its sand has to offer us for the rest of our lives.

We had a joyous Christmas, and now look forward to an interesting New Year -- 2019!

Sunday, December 23, 2018

Who Would Have Thought? Part Three...

I had no idea when I began my project of writing the history of my dad's restaurant, Pickle Bill's, that I would have such a wonderful success with it.  I self-published, using a local Print Shop in Newport, Oregon and initially ordered 50 copies.  Those went quickly, so I ordered another 25.  I did not think they would all sell, but they did!  And so, I ordered another 25.  With each printing, the gracious printer gave me a few extras, so by the time I sold the very last one, I had shipped a total of 109 copies out the door.  I will not publish any more.


I write this, because I wanted to record in my Blog the fact that (1) I actually accomplished something that many, many people appreciated; and (2) I found my voice and the joy that writing something so special to my heart can bring.  I did this for my dad.  I dd it to keep his memory alive.  I did it to let people know what an exceptionally special man he was and what an amazing entrepreneur he was long before that word was even used as much as it is today.  Lastly, I did it for me, because I needed to feel good about something that I had written.  And I do!

And so, I put to bed the little publication that gave so many, including myself so much joy in the remembering.  I thank God for the gift of being able to string together a few words to make a sentence, a few sentences to make a paragraph, a few paragraphs to make a page, and a few pages to make a book.  Thank you, Daddy, for the material woven through my memories that I was able to spin into a tale.  I love you and I miss you very much.

Good night "Pickle Bill's!"  May you rest in your over 100 bookshelves, wherever they are, and not gather too much dust!
James Harvey Davenport, 1985


James Harvey Davenport, 1957

Author, Florene Davenport Henderson-Mickelson, 2013

An Unfortunate Space of Lost Time...Part Two



 I left this writing last time with Dean and I working toward our goal of retirement in Arizona.  2018 was a year of "waiting!"  We had to wait for Dean's investment money to kick in so we could have a down payment on a house; we had to wait till he finally decided to stop working for the part-time job he had at Mike's Pharmacy in Toledo, Oregon; and we had to wait until we were ready to make the move.  Meanwhile, we busied ourselves with packing, as though we were going to move, and other extra-curricular activities like music and Church.

In April, part of the retirement money started to trickle in.  That gave us a little hope.  In July, some more money came forth.  Finally, in September, the final installment came in and we felt uplifted somewhat and began moving forward.  Dean's job at the Pharmacy ended in July, not his decision, but Mike's.  So we were definitely in the "Retirement" mode!

We took a very long round-trip road trip to Prescott in September.  The best part of the trip was stopping to stay with family along the way.  We drove to Las Vegas and stayed with Heather and Rich before trekking onward to Prescott (4 1/2 hours from Vegas!).  We had a lovely visit with Heather and family.

Onward to Prescott where we stayed in a little motel in the center of town.  We would be there for a week, so we made ourselves at home and enjoyed the time spent there.  We met with our Realtor and he was gracious and took us around to visit 6 homes that he wanted to show us.  The first three were ok, but seemed to have one or two features that we just couldn't abide.  One, though it was a lovely home with a beautiful backyard, was on a 1/4 mile of dirt road full of ruts and holes and hills.  That part, we did not like.



The fourth home was perfect!  It was on a quiet street corner and had a 15 foot (+/-) tall Blue Spruce in the front and a flag pole!  There were so many features we really liked, such as tile floors throughout, except for the bedrooms which were faux wood floors.  It had beautiful living room and front bedroom windows with wood blinds.  The kitchen, though on the small side, had a nice pantry and a good sized dining area off to one side.  It was a 22 year old home, but we fell in love with it and made an offer.

We waited only one day to hear that our offer had been accepted.  We got busy signing a lot of paper work and then were in the process of waiting to see if our loan would be approved.  That would take a month or so.  We used the rest of our time in Prescott exploring the area some more.  The home we made the offer on was in Prescott Valley, a 20+ minute drive east of Prescott itself.  We chose to look at homes in Prescott Valley mostly because they were less expensive.  To live in Prescott proper, we would have had to pay $100,000 or more extra for an equivalent home.  It's all good, however, because they both enjoy the same sunshine and have that wonderful Arizona air!

At the end of our week, we headed back to Newport, via Las Vegas (stayed with Heather again) and  through Utah where we visited with Mark and the kids in St George for lunch. We had a lovely visit. Those kids are growing up so much.  We then headed north to Provo/Orem, where we stayed one night with Debi and Brian.  We got to see JerriAnne while there, as well.  Our next stop would be Boise, Idaho, where we would stay one night with our good friends, Kathy and Arlo Lien.  Kathy was one of the first friends we acquired while we lived in Crooked River Ranch in Oregon.  We had a wonderful stay and visit.

The next day, we drove nearly straight through to Bend and then on to Newport.  We had hoped to see Billy while in Bend, but he was out of town on a tour somewhere.  We were sad that we had missed him.

By the middle of October we learned that our loan had been approved!  We were now on full throttle ahead!  We finished packing, arranged for the moving van to pick up our household goods on the 27th, said our good-bye's to friends,  and said good-bye to Billy who drove to our house from California.  He then headed home to Bend.

And so it was that on the 27th day of October--with our little house emptied and cleaned from top to bottom--the Mickelson's began the long drive from Newport, Oregon to Prescott Valley, Arizona to begin a new chapter in our lives.

We loaded our car and started our journey down the road, this time by-passing family and driving through California instead.  We drove for 2 1/2 days, staying our nights in Fresno and Barstow, arriving in Prescott Valley on a Tuesday afternoon.  We met with our Realtor who had some more papers for us to sign.  The next morning, October 30, we met with the Loan Officers and signed another boat-load of papers and transferred our money to them for the down payment.  When we left the office, we felt relief.  Our search was over, our purchase was made, and we soon would be home-owners again!  Our home became a reality!  Scary and relieved at the same time.

We spent the remainder of that day shopping for furniture for our home!  We found a lovely used dining-room set and a chair and ottoman.  That would be all that we needed for awhile.  We also bought a dryer and a couple of rugs for the two bedrooms.  Dean did not want a rug in the living room or our bedroom.

There were a few things that had to be fixed which the home inspector found and we ordered those things done as soon as possible.  Those items would be at the sellers expense, not ours.  On October 31st, Halloween day, our moving van arrived and everything began to be unloaded either into our house or into the garage.   We filled the garage with a million boxes and our spacious house with what furniture we had.  The piano and harpsichord were the most important pieces for the Living room.  It only took them 2 1/2 hours to unload, where it had taken them 4 1/2 hours to load in Newport!  We were relieved to have all of our belongings fit into one house instead of a little house and a storage unit.  Whew!

We worked feverishly to get the "necessaries" put away, were delighted with the delivery of our purchases, and began to feel comfortable in our new home.

The rest of the story is all about settling in.  That will take quite a long time.  I can honestly say that we are happy to be here where I can look out of my window and see blue skies and sunshine every day.  I will miss my ocean view, but we enjoyed that for over a year and a half and I have many, many photos and memories.  We shall miss our son being so far away, but he has opted to make Oregon his home and he is not a child anymore.  He is a man and can certainly make his own decisions.  We will miss our friends, but they, too live on in our memories.  It is time now to turn the page and start that new chapter in our lives we have been planning for so long.  We both are looking forward to that adventure!

One last post-script:  It was an amazingly wonderful experience for us on Thanksgiving to have Heather, Rich and the kids and Lis and her new husband, Travis, here for Thanksgiving.  It was truly a wonderful Thanksgiving day.  So much to be thankful for!